Timmy Lee STAFFORD
Full Siblings:
Tammy (Stafford) Bellflower & Timmy Lee Stafford
Our mom, Doris Ann (Tidwell), was the second wife of our father,
P.J. Stafford (1932–2012).
(Marriage record •
Divorce announcement)
Doris and P.J. had two children together:
Tammy Jean (Stafford) Bellflower
and
Timmy Lee Stafford (1966–2004)
[Obituary •
Headstone •
In Loving Memory •
Birth Certificate]
Timmy Lee Stafford 1966–2004 Obituary
Corrections:
– Half-sister's name is Frieta Joyce Carpenter (not Frieda)
– Maternal grandmother: Margaret Arene (Anderson) Tidwell
– Timmy had one child (Laura Beth). Amy, Tina, and Jeffery were his stepchildren.
Timmy died in a head-on collision on December 14, 2004, in Opelika, Lee County, Alabama, on Hwy 51 between Beauregard and the city limits. The cause is unknown. Toxicology tests showed no drugs, medication, or alcohol in his system.
Personal Note:
I am Timmy’s only full sibling and the last surviving member of our family of four: me, Timmy, Van Dow Stafford, and Ethel (Biggs) Stafford.
Timmy had one daughter, Laura Beth Stafford, who was 15 years old when he passed. He had no biological grandchildren but was a step-grandfather to Amy, Tina, and Jeffery’s children.
We lived in Tennessee, then Franklin, Kentucky, and finally Gainesboro, Tennessee, to be closer to our great-grandmother and our grandfather’s sister. Our great-grandfather, Woody C. Biggs, also lived with us until his death.
Family Tree for Timmy
Parents:
Father: P.J. "Pete" Stafford (1932–2012)
Mother: Doris Ann (Tidwell) – living as of June 12, 2025
See Tidwell Page
Paternal Grandparents:
Van Dow Stafford (1907–1992)
Ethel (Biggs) Stafford (1909–1983)
Maternal Grandparents:
Margaret Arene (Anderson) Tidwell (1923–2007)
William Colie Tidwell (1916–1994)
Full Sibling:
Tammy Jean (Stafford) Bellflower
Half-Siblings:
– Frieta Joyce (Stafford), daughter of P.J. Stafford & Edith Evelyn (Dillard)
– Lorie Ann (Ledbetter), daughter of Doris Tidwell & Charles Ledbetter
– "Private" (Stafford), daughter of P.J. Stafford & Brenda Joyce (Stafford) Stafford
Note: This is something that is well-known within our family:
Timmy had a two-year relationship with Alberta Faye (Stafford) Reeves (1954–2017), Brenda’s full sister. It began when he was 16 and she was 28, after he moved into the home where she lived with her husband,
Donald Ray Reeves (1944–2012).

Tammy Jean Stafford with her full sibling, Timmy Lee Stafford.
Place: Tennessee.
Links – Photos & Genealogy
Timmy Lee Stafford – WikiTree
Timmy Lee Stafford – We Remember
Timmy Lee Stafford – Find a Grave